Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Ryan Gosling denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Ryan Gosling needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Ryan Gosling also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Ryan, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Ryan Gosling frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Gosling identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Ryan has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Gosling cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Ryan Gosling possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Ryan Gosling will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Ryan does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Ryan Gosling wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Ryan Gosling appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Ryan Gosling craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Ryan loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Gosling.
Ryan has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Gosling experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Ryan Gosling is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 12th house
Moon Square Venus
Venus in Libra
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Pluto