challenges and difficulties
Ryan Gosling takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Ryan enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Ryan Gosling also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Ryan. He strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for him.
On another level entirely, Ryan Gosling is very careful about joining forces, and especially his material resources, with others. Gosling wants to keep his own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
His aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Ryan Gosling pursues his aims in a systematic, disciplined, and thorough manner, and he is willing to takes his time, advancing slowly and steadily on his way towards his goal.
Sometimes Ryan Gosling underestimates what is possible, and holds himself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
When he is with others, Ryan Gosling often may suddenly become inhibited. He is inclined to be afraid of confrontations and probably will avoid group activities as much as possible.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ryan Gosling instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ryan Gosling needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Ryan Gosling's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Gosling's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Ryan Gosling is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Ryan should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Ryan Gosling can offer the world at large.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Ryan Gosling to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Ryan Gosling has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 8th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Uranus/N. Node
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 7th house