Yvonne De Carlo
challenges and difficulties
Yvonne De Carlo takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Yvonne enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Yvonne De Carlo also fears entrapment in close relationships.
De Carlo is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Yvonne De Carlo does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Yvonne De Carlo better than being with groups of her own peers.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Yvonne De Carlo will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Yvonne feel a little out of step with others. Yvonne De Carlo takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Yvonne feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Yvonne De Carlo has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Yvonne De Carlo instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Yvonne De Carlo needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Her natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing her situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing her situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Yvonne De Carlo copes with stress. Yvonne De Carlo also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
Her development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Yvonne De Carlo to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is in her public life and career that Yvonne De Carlo is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact De Carlo's reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Yvonne De Carlo achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Yvonne De Carlo in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to De Carlo, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Yvonne De Carlo has to learn to communicate and express herself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Yvonne to study, learn skills and develop her intellectual interests and capacities. De Carlo needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing her intellectual reasoning ability. Yvonne De Carlo should practice using her mind, her thinking skills and her ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for her.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Yvonne De Carlo to pursue.
Yvonne De Carlo should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit De Carlo's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Yvonne really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and De Carlo's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
She is very socially minded and it is easy for Yvonne De Carlo to show her affection. Her family or community probably provided fertile ground for her development. De Carlo may love to show off a little and she thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
Yvonne De Carlo has a very affectionate attitude toward others and the capacity to love a lot of people. There probably is a very deep bond between Yvonne and her friends, and when she falls in love, Yvonne De Carlo is likely to love just as deeply.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Square Pluto
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Venus/MC