Xenia Seeberg
approach to life and appearances

The following is a description of Xenia's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Xenia Seeberg comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Xenia Seeberg - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Xenia Seeberg" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Xenia a little better. This page describes the disguise Seeberg wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.

Xenia Seeberg appears gentle and soft, and she acts rather reserved with others until she knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Xenia has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: her heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for her. Seeberg tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Seeberg.

Seeberg approaches life emotionally and subjectively and she is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around her. Instinctive and non-rational, Xenia Seeberg is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for her actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.

Her emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Xenia's thoughts and opinions. She views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach herself from her own personal bias and prejudices. She is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects her and those dear and close to her, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, she may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Xenia and her near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for her and her near and dear ones, it is no good.

She is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those she cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Xenia Seeberg empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, she is easily moved by others' pain, and Xenia Seeberg is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.

Her moods fluctuate and change frequently and she is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Xenia Seeberg communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.

Xenia never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to her.

Xenia Seeberg has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". Her personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Xenia coax rather than coerce. However, if she does not get what she wants, Xenia Seeberg is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining, or pouting rather than stating directly what she needs, or doing for herself. Seeberg seems to need others' approval first.

Xenia Seeberg appears responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities which encourage others to take her seriously. She is unlikely to present herself as more than she is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Xenia Seeberg seemed mature for her age.

Xenia has penetrating insight into people and a keen eye and ear for the hidden, unspoken, behind-the-scenes elements in life. She may seem intense and make other people a bit uncomfortable at times. There is also a sexual quality in Xenia's manner which can be quite alluring, in a subtle way.

Xenia Seeberg has a strong desire to build an image of her that captivates everyone around her, and with her attractive and fascinating personality, she has the ability to influence many people. Xenia is likely to have some unusual love affairs.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Cancer Rising

Venus Sextile Asc.

Saturn Sextile Asc.

Pluto Sextile Asc.

Asc. Conjunct Venus/Pluto