Wendy Melvoin
in Relationships

Wendy Melvoin responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Melvoin often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Wendy Melvoin must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Wendy's need for times of withdrawal.

Wendy Melvoin is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Wendy Melvoin takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Wendy Melvoin a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Wendy's past are especially dear to her.

Wendy Melvoin may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Wendy Melvoin feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Wendy Melvoin does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Melvoin tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Wendy Melvoin enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Wendy Melvoin gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Wendy Melvoin may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Wendy feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Wendy Melvoin idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Melvoin is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Wendy Melvoin thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Wendy Melvoin is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Wendy is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Wendy Melvoin professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Melvoin a lot of breathing space.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Wendy Melvoin explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Melvoin will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Wendy Melvoin things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Melvoin will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Wendy Melvoin needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Wendy Melvoin could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

She is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Wendy Melvoin has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Wendy also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.

Wendy Melvoin has a constant longing for new and exciting adventures. Wendy likes to be admired and she has a tendency to force admiration by fishing for compliments. Her creative power also is strong, and Melvoin may have a desire to create some entirely new form of art.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 11th house

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter

Venus Opposition Uranus/Pluto