Eartha Kitt
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Eartha Kitt has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Eartha Kitt is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Kitt for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Kitt's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Kitt. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Eartha Kitt often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Kitt thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Eartha is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Eartha Kitt has good psychological insight into others.

Eartha Kitt often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Kitt actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Eartha Kitt to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Eartha Kitt becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Kitt can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Eartha Kitt insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

In love relationships, Eartha Kitt seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Eartha, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Eartha Kitt supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Eartha that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Eartha Kitt is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Kitt is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Eartha Kitt is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Eartha uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Eartha Kitt does.

Eartha Kitt shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Eartha's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Eartha Kitt also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Eartha likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Kitt may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Eartha Kitt craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Kitt, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Sensitive and compassionate, Kitt tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Eartha has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Eartha is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

It may be hard for Eartha Kitt to love someone and to express her love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between her and others and she seems very cool to them. Her disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach her.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 1st house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mars/Saturn