challenges and difficulties
Canoletti fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Vivian Canoletti may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Vivian.
She is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Vivian Canoletti tries to be strictly accurate and she is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Canoletti withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Vivian's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
She is inclined to be somewhat timid and afraid to start something on her own, preferring that someone else tells her what to do. Vivian Canoletti can easily be deterred from pursuing her goals, making her advancement in life rather slow.
Vivian Canoletti may often be coerced into doing things that she does not want to do, leaving her frustrated, irritable and touchy. Vivian could turn hard and unforgiving toward others and may break up some important relationships.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Vivian Canoletti instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Vivian Canoletti needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Vivian Canoletti to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Vivian Canoletti needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Vivian directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Canoletti's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Vivian Canoletti has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Canoletti will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Vivian Canoletti in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Canoletti, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Vivian Canoletti should become more aware of the spiritual side of life and its underlying unity by getting involved in charitable activities and opening up her psychic channels. Meditation that develops Canoletti's intuitive abilities, as well as learning about the unseen side of life through her own dream experiences or altered states of awareness, can be important steps in Vivian's path.
Moreover, musical and artistic or imaginative endeavors will be important to her.
Because of rigid and somewhat unpleasant family relationships, Vivian Canoletti is inclined to seclude herself from others. She may prefer to live in archaic surroundings and could be interested in antiques.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Neptune
N. Node Opposition Saturn/Asc.