He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Cody Linley rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Linley's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Linley may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Cody difficult to live with. Cody Linley needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Linley depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Cody's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Cody Linley may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Cody Linley craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Linley also loves to feel free and unfettered.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Cody Linley cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Linley's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Cody at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Cody Linley is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Cody Linley may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Cody desires.
Cody Linley often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Cody. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Cody Linley may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Cody Linley - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Cody Linley cannot or will not hold onto it. Cody Linley has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Linley's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Cody freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Linley could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Linley also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Cody Linley just wants to have a good time.
Cody Linley has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well being. It is rare for Cody to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Linley. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Cody Linley to channel his passion.
Cody's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Cody Linley is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Linley is to being left out or unappreciated.
Intimacy does not come easily to Cody Linley and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Linley does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Cody Linley needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Cody Linley yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Linley frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Cody Linley does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Cody Linley is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Cody Linley should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 7th house
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 12th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Sextile Pluto