Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Demi Lovato has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Lovato is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Demi Lovato seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Lovato tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Demi's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Demi Lovato substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Lovato depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Demi's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Demi Lovato may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Demi Lovato feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.
She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Demi Lovato often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Demi Lovato craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Lovato also loves to feel free and unfettered.
The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Lovato's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Demi Lovato is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Demi Lovato that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Lovato's neediness often drives others away. When Demi Lovato does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Lovato will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Demi Lovato will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Demi Lovato is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Demi Lovato also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Lovato is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Demi Lovato thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Demi's nature and Demi Lovato feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Lovato. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Demi Lovato has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Demi Lovato puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Demi Lovato and she is not happy without a love partner. Lovato can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Demi's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Demi Lovato is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Lovato is to being left out or unappreciated.
Demi Lovato tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Lovato may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Demi Lovato is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Demi believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
When it comes to love relationships, Lovato is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Demi Lovato has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Demi acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Demi Lovato is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Demi and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Lovato's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Sensitive and compassionate, Lovato tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Demi has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Demi is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Demi Lovato is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Demi Lovato should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Demi Lovato tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Lovato resents authority and likes to be different. Demi Lovato may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.
Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Demi Lovato could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 7th house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Square Mars
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Opposition Moon/Uranus
Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune