challenges and difficulties
Tommy Mottola has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. He is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that he discourages himself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Mottola knows it should be done.
He frequently over analyzes or picks things apart mentally. Tommy Mottola may also be somewhat of a hypochondriac. Tommy must learn that he does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax his unnecessarily high or strict standards.
Mottola is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Tommy Mottola does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Tommy Mottola better than being with groups of his own peers.
His physical vitality and mental energy tend to be somewhat low. For this reason Tommy Mottola should try to avoid any unnecessary emotional and physical stress and maintain good health habits in order to enhance his resistance to illness.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tommy Mottola instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Tommy Mottola needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Tommy Mottola - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Mottola tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Tommy Mottola is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Mottola's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Tommy Mottola needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Tommy Mottola to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Tommy Mottola has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Neptune
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 7th house