Thalía
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Thalía only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Thalía.
Thalía has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Thalía has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Thalía to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Thalía has a great deal of emotional depth.
Though she yearns for close relationships, Thalía often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Thalía is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.
She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Thalía tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Thalía becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Thalía is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Thalía also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
When she cares about someone, Thalía likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Thalía also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Thalía is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
Thalía shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Thalía's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Thalía also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Thalía likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Thalía's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Thalía is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Thalía is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Thalía rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Thalía is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Thalía craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Thalía needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Thalía has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Thalía frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Thalía can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Thalía's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Thalía has a good understanding of her own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Thalía because of her gentle, kind and friendly manner and she may feel especially drawn to young people.
She may be caught in a conflict between caution and optimism frequently, resulting in restlessness and discontentment. In love relationships, Thalía could feel controlled, rejected or not accepted at times, and at other times experience great ease, happiness and content.
Her energy and initiative seem to be a bit weak and could frequently inhibit Thalía's sex life. Her unrealistic ideals about relationships could lead to disillusionment, and Thalía may feel that real mortals are disappointing, and prefer her fantasies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 8th house
Moon Square Mars
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 6th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
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