approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Thalía's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Thalía comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Thalía - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Thalía" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Thalía a little better. This page describes the disguise Thalía wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Thalía meets life head on and throws herself into new experiences with zest and enthusiasm. She is direct, straightforward, assertive, and usually completely aboveboard in all her dealings. Candid and incapable of guile, insincerity or phoniness, Thalía projects a confident and sometimes arrogant façade to others. She often lacks tact and sensitivity, and can be completely oblivious to others' needs, and inadvertently selfish. Thalía is self-reliant and does not depend upon social approval and reinforcement as much as other people do. She likes to be original and does not mind doing it alone. Thalía may feel that she does not fit into groups very well and that she does not naturally blend in and cooperate with others. She likes to be either a leader or a loner.
Thalía is a doer and thrives on freedom, challenge, and activity. She tends to think in clear, black and white terms, and to be somewhat simplistic in her outlook, which enables Thalía to act in a very decisive and self-assured manner. When inspired by an idea, Thalía feels such a sense of urgency and excitement about it that she will often forge ahead and try to implement it in a rather bold but poorly planned and crudely executed way. Patience and careful attention to details are not Thalía's forte. However, she never accepts defeat and will experience brilliant and unprecedented successes and discoveries, as well as painful failures. To Thalía it is far better to make mistakes than to play it safe and never try.
She is scornful of what she sees as weakness or passivity in others and also of the human tendency to imitate and follow. Thalía is not a follower. Others see Thalía as a strong individual and perhaps brash and brazen as well. Thalía presents a strong front to the world and generally does not allow others to see her vulnerable or insecure side.
At times Thalía comes across as being rather intense and possibly manipulative or controlling. Or she may get involved in relationships that are "fatal attractions", where she acts out compulsive, intense needs and desires. There is a sexual, seductive quality to Thalía's demeanor that others notice right away. This may either repel them or draw them to Thalía irresistibly.
Thalía comes across as tolerant, broad-minded, and well educated or as a seasoned traveler. She radiates a certain distinction, even nobility. Thalía is apt to have a significant, beneficial impact on the people she encounters, without even realizing it.
There is an air of universal sympathy, gentleness and nonjudgmental acceptance about Thalía which draws people in need to her. Because she has a good deal of intuitive insight or psychic perceptiveness, Thalía is able to say or do just the right thing for them. Thalía needs to beware of fostering dependency in those people, however.
The image that Thalía projects to the world and the person she really is inside are considerably different. So much so that at times Thalía may feel that people do not see or know the real her. They respond to the face they see, and the initial impression Thalía makes may actually be misleading. There is also much complexity and tension within her, and Thalía often feels that she needs to change herself in significant ways or that she continually holds back essential aspects of herself.
The initial impression Thalía makes on people may be somewhat deceiving, in that the way Thalía thinks and her true opinions are not always readily apparent. Thalía may try to clothe her ideas and thoughts in terms that tend to mute rather than clarify them. For instance, she may have a very definite, unambiguous opinion, but state it in such a gentle, tactful manner that it seems as though she does not stand behind it as vigorously as she would like. This creates miscommunication or misunderstandings at times. On another level, Thalía tends to become scattered and nervous when she is out of balance. She needs clarity and order in her environment to be at her finest.
The way Thalía comes across to others, particularly at first impression, tends to conceal certain important facets of her character. Specifically, what gives Thalía pleasure, how she likes to give and receive affection, and what she seeks in friendship or love relationships are not at all apparent based on Thalía's outward demeanor. Thalía seems to send mixed signals, and this can create a bit of confusion for the people who are interested in getting close to her or knowing her on more than a superficial level.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Pluto Opposition Asc.
Jupiter Trine Asc.
Neptune Trine Asc.
Sun Quincunx Asc.
Mercury Quincunx Asc.
Venus Quincunx Asc.