Tom Welling
motivation
Although Tom Welling is quite proud and likes to show off and impress other people with his accomplishments and appearance (as described on the previous page) - he is really quite practical, solid, and down to earth (as discussed below). Because of this, he is likely to actually earn the right to be admired - that is, to have actually done something to be proud of.
He is a steadfast and patient soul, capable of tremendous devotion, dedication, endurance and constancy. The ability to follow through and stick with things is one of his greatest assets. Once Welling's course is set, he pursues it tenaciously until it is completed, stubbornly resisting any attempts to sway him from his purpose.
Tom Welling has a very practical nature; he wants to see concrete, tangible results for his efforts, and he is not one to concoct wild dreams that are unlikely to come into fruition. Most of his "wild dreams" have to do with material achievements, well-being and security, for he has a great love of the physical world and he wants to experience and enjoy it to the full. Though Tom Welling will work long and persistently, he also has a strong sensual and comfort-loving side, and he wants to enjoy what he has worked for. In fact, Welling can be enormously lazy at times and has a tendency to overindulge in good food and other earthly pleasures. Tom Welling also loves the beauty of the natural world and he probably prefers a serene country setting to an urban life style.
Basically, his needs are simple and he is easy to please. Tom Welling has a strong desire for security, stability and peace, and will rarely make changes unless he is forced to do so. He is not very demanding emotionally, though he does crave a great deal of physical closeness and affection. Because of his faithfulness, emotional steadfastness and gentle strength, others often depend upon Welling for support. Though he hates upheaval and sudden changes, Tom Welling usually maintains his poise and equanimity. Tom Welling also has an innate sense of harmony with nature, allowing things to grow and unfold in their own time and the patience to nurture something into being - be it a garden, a child, or a creative project. He makes an excellent parent, especially if he follows his instincts more often than "the experts".
Tom has three major faults: one is his bullheaded obstinacy. The second is his unwillingness to deviate from his safe, predictable routine. And the third is Welling's tendency to always insist upon realism and undervalue the imaginative, speculative, and fanciful - in other words, Tom Welling lacks the ability to play with ideas and possibilities, and to open his mind to new horizons.
His career, reputation and public image are very important to Welling. Tom Welling has a strong desire to be influential or make his mark on the world. He is not satisfied with the personal sphere alone; his ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for his unique effort and gifts. Tom Welling may undervalue the personal or inner facet of life.
Tom Welling tends to see things from his perspective only and to be rather subjective. He also enjoys talking and expressing his views but does not always listen as well. Tom Welling has a clear mind, a love of learning and new experiences, and he needs constant mental stimulation and activity.
Tom Welling often feels that he is at cross purposes with himself, for his conscious intentions and desires conflict with his subconscious emotional needs and drives. He is torn in two different directions. Tom has difficulty satisfying both his need to be an individual and his need for caring relationships and a sense of belonging. Moreover, Tom sends out mixed messages so people do not always know how to respond to him or what Tom really wants, thereby creating confusion or conflict in close relationships.
He is often plagued by feelings of personal inadequacy, inhibitions and self-doubt. Tom Welling has a cautious, realistic attitude toward life and is highly responsible and disciplined with regard to his obligations and duties. Tom Welling tends to work and struggle more than necessary and to take himself too seriously.
Although he takes himself and his responsibilities seriously, there is also a part of Tom Welling that rebels against rules and restrictions and the need to contend with outside authority. Welling can feel torn between conforming to the rules or fulfilling his obligations, and breaking free of them. His wilder side will now be described.
If he follows his true nature, his life is apt to be unconventional, unusual, controversial and full of insecurity and excitement. Tom Welling cannot and will not be forced into a pre-set mold, and Tom finds it difficult to conform. His offbeat interests and tastes lead Welling to ventures that others may consider too "far-out" or experimental. Tom Welling has a very creative, inventive streak.
He is warm-hearted, kind, generous and very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Welling's happy feelings rub off onto others and everyone enjoys being with him. Due to a protective and encouraging upbringing, his relationships with his parents are good.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Leo and Sun in Taurus
Sun in Taurus
Sun in 10th house
Sun Conjunct Mercury
Sun Square Moon
Sun Square Saturn
Sun aspects Saturn and Uranus
Sun Opposition Uranus
Sun Conjunct Venus/Jupiter
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