challenges and difficulties
Selleck is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Tom Selleck may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Tom.
It may be difficult for Tom Selleck to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Tom may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Tom Selleck also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
Tom Selleck strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tom Selleck instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Tom Selleck needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Tom Selleck is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Tom Selleck's growth. Tom Selleck needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in his work and his relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Selleck's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Tom Selleck back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Selleck's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
His conversations with others tend to be lively and productive but could also easily turn into arguments. The subject of Selleck's discussions is likely to concern educational matters.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Square Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Mars