Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Heather Graham is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Heather Graham is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
Heather Graham has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Graham also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Heather, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Heather Graham expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
There is another side to Heather Graham as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Heather Graham either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Heather Graham tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Graham's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Heather Graham will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Heather Graham immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Heather Graham values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Heather desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Graham, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Heather Graham appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Heather Graham very happy. Heather wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Heather Graham may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Graham is a natural host or diplomat.
She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Heather Graham is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Heather and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Graham's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 6th house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Conjunct Neptune/Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Uranus