challenges and difficulties
Graham either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Heather Graham may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Heather Graham feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
She may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Heather Graham does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Heather Graham must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Heather Graham tends to seesaw between hope, optimism, and faith versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. She needs to overcome impatience and restlessness in order to achieve her dreams and desires for a better life.
At times Heather Graham struggles with nebulous worries and insecurities, fears which may be difficult to name. Mostly, she may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of her mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Heather Graham has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if her religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting herself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Heather occasionally.
Heather Graham tends to have inner conflicts between her responsibilities and what she would like to do. Graham may weigh her duties favorably against her desires, making it very difficult for her to be truly happy.
Very cautious and reserved, Heather Graham could find it difficult to express herself. She is a bit inhibited around others and does not seem to get much cooperation from them, causing Heather to be disappointed.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Heather Graham instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Heather Graham needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Graham's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Heather Graham has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in any involvements she has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Heather Graham is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 12th house
Jupiter Opposition Saturn
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Opposition Moon/Jupiter
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Asc.
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 11th house