Toby does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Toby Stephens would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Toby Stephens avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Stephens. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Stephens gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Toby Stephens makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Toby Stephens needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.
Toby Stephens has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Toby out for help, sympathy or advice. Toby Stephens is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
Toby has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Toby Stephens has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Toby Stephens undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Toby Stephens has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Toby Stephens enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Toby wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Toby is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Toby Stephens feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Toby Stephens is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Stephens is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Toby Stephens has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but his somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Toby Stephens loves his work and may connect his profession with a hobby in some way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 11th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Opposition Mars/Asc.