Lillian Ellison approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Lillian's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Lillian Ellison comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Lillian Ellison - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Lillian Ellison" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Lillian a little better. This page describes the disguise The Fabulous Moolah wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Lillian Ellison will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Lillian has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Lillian Ellison very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, The Fabulous Moolah is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Lillian Ellison will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes The Fabulous Moolah's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Lillian Ellison appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that The Fabulous Moolah is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Lillian possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Lillian Ellison - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Lillian Ellison does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Lillian.
Others see Lillian Ellison as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face The Fabulous Moolah shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Lillian Ellison usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Lillian Ellison appears to be sweet to other people, and she knows how to use charm, persuasion and affection rather than more direct (but possibly disagreeable) methods to get her point across. She may be overly concerned with appearances and superficial beauty, in which case Lillian Ellison may also seem vain and narcissistic to others.
Lillian Ellison tends to blend in with, and assume the characteristics of those around her, and may thus not make a powerful individual statement of her own. She may project an aura of glamour or "make-believe" and enjoy donning different personalities at different times.
She may be seen as the wild card, the unpredictable or kooky one, because occasionally Lillian Ellison does surprising things that are either totally out of character or are actually intended to shock people. There is an erratic quality or rebelliousness that comes across at odd moments. It seems to be Lillian's role to shake things up a bit and she may not be entirely comfortable with this herself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Libra Rising
Venus Square Asc.
Neptune Sextile Asc.
Uranus Quincunx Asc.
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