challenges and difficulties
Tanya Tucker has a critical, cynical attitude towards many religions and philosophies. Without realizing it, she prevents herself from appreciating new viewpoints and attitudes. Tucker is more rigid and dogmatic than she realizes. Her approach may also be too intellectual or moralistic. Tanya Tucker takes her own political beliefs and spiritual philosophy very seriously, worrying and fretting if she is not 100% clear about some ideology or theory.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Tanya from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Tanya Tucker felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Tucker remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Tanya Tucker needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Tanya accomplish this.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tanya Tucker instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Tanya Tucker needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Tanya stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Tanya Tucker has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Tanya Tucker feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Tanya Tucker calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Tanya Tucker needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Tanya Tucker is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Tucker's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Tanya Tucker in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Tucker, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Tanya Tucker should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Tanya needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from Tucker's heart and bears the stamp of Tucker's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Tanya Tucker to grow and become more whole herself.
Tanya Tucker has to learn to communicate and express herself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Tanya to study, learn skills and develop her intellectual interests and capacities. Tucker needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing her intellectual reasoning ability. Tanya Tucker should practice using her mind, her thinking skills and her ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for her.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Tanya Tucker to pursue.
Not at all selfish, Tanya Tucker has the ability to share the joy she feels with other people. Tanya seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
Tanya has an inclination to gossip and spread stories or she could be the subject of gossip herself at times. Her perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Tanya Tucker may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Because of rigid and somewhat unpleasant family relationships, Tanya Tucker is inclined to seclude herself from others. She may prefer to live in archaic surroundings and could be interested in antiques.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Sagittarius
Saturn in 4th house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Saturn/Asc.