challenges and difficulties
Susan Dey takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Susan enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Susan Dey also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Susan Dey does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Susan Dey must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Susan Dey takes her ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Susan has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but she can also become so involved in her imaginative, idealistic pursuits that she looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Susan tries to keep her sensuality under control and is likely to suppress the tension she feels in her love relationships. At times she could feel somewhat emotionally inhibited, while at others, Susan Dey may have a strong wish to break all moral barriers.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Susan Dey instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Susan Dey needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Susan Dey's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Dey's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Dey's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Dey's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Dey's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Susan Dey needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how Dey's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Susan Dey is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Dey's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Susan Dey in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Dey, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Susan Dey should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Dey's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Susan Dey needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Susan needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Opposition Venus/Uranus
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Mars