Emily Dickinson
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Emily Dickinson is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Emily Dickinson is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Dickinson gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Emily Dickinson makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Emily Dickinson needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.

Emily Dickinson has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Emily out for help, sympathy or advice. Emily Dickinson is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Emily does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Emily Dickinson is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Emily Dickinson has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Emily should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. She prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.

Her thinking is dictated by her feelings and Dickinson may rely on her intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. Her advice may often be sought and heeded, because Emily Dickinson seems to know and understand what motivates others.

She is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Emily Dickinson expects very little. Once she has found her mate, Emily Dickinson will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to her partner.

Emily Dickinson has a strong desire for genuine understanding with others and finds it easy to share her feelings with them. Her feelings toward others are very loving and Emily is likely to have a lot in common with many of her friends.

In love relationships, Emily Dickinson seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Emily, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Emily Dickinson supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Emily that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Emily Dickinson is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

For Emily Dickinson, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Emily values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Emily Dickinson needs to beware of.

Emily Dickinson tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Dickinson resents authority and likes to be different. Emily Dickinson may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.

She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Emily Dickinson is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.

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