Although she is quite tolerant, giving and forgiving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), Susan Anton has a definite sense of fairness, balance and correct proportions, which prevent Susan from being completely happy in an exclusively benevolent role. Susan Anton really wants equal and reciprocal relationships - not ones that involve being someone else's servant or caregiver. However, Susan Anton needs to learn how to assert what she wants and needs, for she tends to "go with the flow" or simply wait for her needs to be met. Consequently, she may feel that she is never able to achieve equality in relationships and ends up being taken advantage of. Moreover, Susan should avoid the tendency to be evasive, indirect, and afraid to confront unpleasant issues. The honest and open relationships Anton seeks cannot be achieved if she is hiding something!
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Susan Anton instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Susan does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Anton since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Anton will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Susan Anton, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Susan Anton invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Susan Anton seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Anton perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Susan Anton appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Susan Anton fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Susan. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Susan Anton also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Anton dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Susan Anton invests a tremendous amount of her creative energy into her relationships with others, particularly her marriage or other close partnerships. Susan feels that she needs others in order to be all that she can be, and she is disinclined to solitary activities and endeavors.
Working with people on a one-to-one basis to bring about mutual understanding, harmony, and satisfaction is an area in which Susan Anton can really excel. Counseling or negotiating are talents of hers.
Sensitive and imaginative, she is attracted to artistic and creative pursuits and to mysticism. Susan Anton is impressionable and receptive, and often has experiences that are unusual and unexplainable by the rational mind. Susan has an abundance of dreams, visions and longings, but does not always have the concentrated will and stamina to make them materialize. Gentle, idealistic and peace loving, Susan often seeks to avoid the harsh realities of life. Susan has an ethereal quality about her.
Susan Anton undergoes deep, transformative changes in her life with relative ease and a minimum of conscious resistance. Because she does not avoid the depths, Anton has access to a lot of personal power and strength. Without realizing it or seeking it, Susan is apt to have quite a potent effect on the people she comes into contact with, even superficially. Others sense that Susan Anton is a force to be reckoned with.
Susan has the ability to stand on her own feet and use the power of her own personality to attain success. Susan Anton needs to be a leader and she has a strong desire to obtain power and authority. It is imperative to Anton that she be out in front of the parade.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Pisces and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 7th house
Sun Conjunct Neptune
Sun Sextile Pluto
Sun Conjunct Pluto/MC