Sarah Michelle Gellar
challenges and difficulties
She is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing herself freely and openly is not easy for Gellar. Sarah Michelle Gellar tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of her "performance" is an important task for Sarah Michelle.
Sarah Michelle Gellar has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Sarah Michelle limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Sarah Michelle Gellar difficult to get to know intimately, as Gellar tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Sarah Michelle Gellar becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Gellar is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Sarah Michelle Gellar instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Sarah Michelle Gellar needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Sarah Michelle stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Sarah Michelle Gellar has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Sarah Michelle Gellar feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Sarah Michelle Gellar calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Sarah Michelle Gellar needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Sarah Michelle Gellar is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Gellar's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Sarah Michelle Gellar back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Sarah Michelle Gellar tends to pick her friends and associates very carefully and is always on the look-out for responsible and congenial people. This enables Sarah Michelle Gellar to feel secure with her colleagues and she enjoys good relationships with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Sun/MC