Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Jerry O'Connell denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Jerry O'Connell needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Jerry O'Connell also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Jerry O'Connell often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. O'Connell is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
Jerry has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Jerry O'Connell has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Jerry O'Connell undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Jerry O'Connell seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Jerry likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Jerry O'Connell cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from O'Connell's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Jerry at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Jerry O'Connell is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Jerry O'Connell may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Jerry desires.
Jerry is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show O'Connell places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Jerry O'Connell feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Jerry O'Connell is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. O'Connell is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Jerry O'Connell tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. O'Connell may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Jerry O'Connell is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Jerry believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
When it comes to love relationships, O'Connell is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Jerry O'Connell has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Jerry acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and O'Connell may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Jerry O'Connell craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to O'Connell, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
He is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Jerry O'Connell probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and his attachment to others is likely to be very deep.
Jerry O'Connell has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Jerry tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
His attitude is positive and harmonious and Jerry O'Connell impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 8th house
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Conjunct Moon/MC
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node