challenges and difficulties
O'Connell doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Jerry is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
Jerry O'Connell has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Jerry limits himself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in himself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Jerry O'Connell difficult to get to know intimately, as O'Connell tends to distance himself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
His upbringing may have been either too demanding or somewhat lacks. Jerry O'Connell resists any attempt to restrict his freedom and has the ability to apply extraordinary efforts to overcome any inhibitions or difficulties that he may have.
Jerry O'Connell has a desire to break away from tradition and to free himself from restricting conditions. Somewhat inflexible and rigid, he may suddenly become inhibited before he initiates his objectives, which could work out to O'Connell's disadvantage.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jerry O'Connell instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jerry O'Connell needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Jerry O'Connell to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Jerry O'Connell needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Jerry directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from O'Connell's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Jerry O'Connell to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Jerry O'Connell has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Jerry O'Connell back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Jerry O'Connell's rigid self-control overly restricts his ability to freely express himself or explore possibilities. He is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. He tends to be fearful, judgmental towards himself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside himself. Jerry O'Connell should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is O'Connell's responsibility.
He is somewhat restless and nervous, but enjoys communicating with people and is constantly confronting others with his new ideas. Jerry has the ability to develop new relationships quickly and he can also be a stimulating force in group activities.
He is gay and cheerful in the company of others and happy to be with them. Jerry O'Connell is fond of telling jokes and is likely to entertain everyone. His relationships with others are inclined to be for a common purpose.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Opposition Sun/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus