He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Rufus Sewell rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Sewell's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Sewell may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Rufus difficult to live with. Rufus Sewell needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Though he yearns for close relationships, Rufus Sewell often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Sewell is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Rufus Sewell has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Rufus' sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Sewell is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Rufus has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Rufus Sewell to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Rufus Sewell is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Rufus Sewell also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Rufus Sewell craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Rufus loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Sewell.
Rufus has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Sewell experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Rufus Sewell is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.
Rufus Sewell tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. His desire is always very strong and Sewell resents authority and likes to be different. Rufus Sewell may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at his disposal.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 8th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Conjunct Moon/Uranus