approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Ronnie's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Ronnie Spector comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Ronnie Spector - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Ronnie Spector" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Ronnie a little better. This page describes the disguise Spector wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Ronnie Spector will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Ronnie has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Ronnie Spector very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Spector is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Ronnie Spector will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Spector's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Ronnie Spector appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Spector is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Ronnie possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Ronnie Spector - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Ronnie Spector does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Ronnie.
Others see Ronnie Spector as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Spector shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Ronnie Spector usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
To others, Ronnie Spector appears capable, mature, and down to earth. Even when she was young, there was a certain practicality and responsible air about Ronnie that inspired people to rely on her. Spector keeps her cool in most situations.
Others are attracted to Spector because of her light-hearted, cheerful and optimistic personality. Very charming, Ronnie Spector is likely to give frequent compliments. She is very affectionate toward others and has a need to be in active relationships with people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Trine Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Venus