He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Roberto should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Calvi often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Calvi's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Roberto Calvi insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Roberto does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Roberto Calvi feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Roberto Calvi cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Roberto Calvi has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Roberto takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Roberto Calvi enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Roberto wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Calvi is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Roberto Calvi prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Roberto.
Roberto is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Roberto Calvi very popular.
There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Calvi's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Roberto Calvi finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable may not be attuned to his sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is that the people Roberto loves and the people Roberto wants to make love with are very different from one another. Roberto Calvi may be confused about what he really needs and wants in personal relationships. Calvi needs to acknowledge that he has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality; security and commitment in love relationships alongside a great deal of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.
Roberto Calvi experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Roberto Calvi has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Roberto Calvi can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 5th house
Venus in Aries
Venus in 7th house
Venus Quincunx Mars
Venus Square Pluto