challenges and difficulties
Davies is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Ray Davies may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Ray.
He is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Ray Davies tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Davies withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Ray's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
Ray Davies strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
Ray may find it difficult to express himself, thereby feeling inhibited and lonely at times. He tends to isolate himself from others and his relationships come across as strained. Conditions in Ray Davies' parental home may be oppressive and strained.
Ray Davies tends to be emotionally shy, sensitive and awkward and may have difficulty expressing his true feelings, even when his affection is real. One of Davies' parents may have been too strict and unloving, and as a result, Ray may fear close relationships.
Ray Davies tends to suppress his feelings and may be somewhat inhibited in love relationships. He may often feel rejected or he may give the impression of rejecting others himself. Perhaps his mother or father found it difficult to express their affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ray Davies instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ray Davies needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Ray Davies is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Ray Davies' growth. Ray Davies needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Ray Davies should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
He is very socially minded and it is easy for Ray Davies to show his affection. His family or community probably provided fertile ground for his development. Davies may love to show off a little and he thrives on being involved with others in joyful group activities.
He is very social and his relationships with others are very warm and expansive. It is essential for Ray's emotional welfare to be surrounded by people and he is an active member of groups or associations he belongs to.
He is likely to offer help and protection to people around him and promote moral values. Ray Davies stands up for social justice and unselfishly works for the good of his community. , Ray Davies refuses any kind of personal advantage and lives in harmony with everyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Moon
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Venus
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Venus
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn