challenges and difficulties
Rachel Bilson takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Rachel enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Rachel Bilson also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Bilson is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Rachel Bilson does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Rachel Bilson better than being with groups of her own peers.
Her aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Rachel Bilson pursues her aims in a systematic, disciplined, and thorough manner, and she is willing to takes her time, advancing slowly and steadily on her way towards her goal.
Sometimes Rachel Bilson underestimates what is possible, and holds herself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Bilson works quietly to get ahead, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for her efforts. Reserved and shy, Rachel Bilson tends to build a wall between herself and others and she seems to be more receptive to older and mature people.
She is inclined to feel inferior and may easily be taken in by others. Rachel has to guard against being deceived or used by others, though her intentions may be good. Rachel Bilson must not let her desire to have things cloud her ability to see what is really happening.
Rachel Bilson strongly rebels against any restrictions and may have the desire to break away, over-throwing all thought of responsibility. On the other hand, limitations in her live also could suddenly pass away, leaving Bilson free to do her own thing.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Rachel Bilson instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Rachel Bilson needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Rachel Bilson's path lies in her development as an individual, the discovery of her own strengths and joys, the capacity to express her uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Bilson's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Rachel Bilson is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, she may believe that striving to do her personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Rachel should let go of this notion. Finding her own center and doing what gives her delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Rachel Bilson can offer the world at large.
It is in fostering a personal vision or philosophy of life, whether through religious or philosophical studies, education or the wisdom of distant lands or cultures that Rachel Bilson is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Rachel Bilson needs to cultivate the qualities described above in this endeavor. Long distance communication and involvement with foreigners is likely to be significant to Bilson.
The following are specific activities that will support Rachel Bilson in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Bilson, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Rachel Bilson should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Bilson's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Rachel Bilson needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Rachel needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Rachel Bilson has a sympathetic understanding of other people and the ability to easily adapt herself to them. Her emotional fulfillment is likely to come through her relationships with others and Bilson will probably feel a soul-affinity with many of them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 11th house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Uranus/MC
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 9th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Moon/MC