She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Q'Orianka Kilcher rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Kilcher's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Kilcher may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Q'Orianka difficult to live with. Q'Orianka Kilcher needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Q'Orianka Kilcher cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Q'Orianka Kilcher has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Q'Orianka takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Q'Orianka Kilcher cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Kilcher's motto.
She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Q'Orianka Kilcher craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Kilcher also loves to feel free and unfettered.
Although Q'Orianka Kilcher was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Q'Orianka's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Kilcher's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Q'Orianka Kilcher is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Q'Orianka Kilcher cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Kilcher's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Q'Orianka at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Q'Orianka Kilcher is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Q'Orianka Kilcher may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Q'Orianka desires.
Q'Orianka is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Moreover, Q'Orianka Kilcher feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
Intimacy does not come easily to Q'Orianka Kilcher and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Kilcher does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Q'Orianka Kilcher needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Q'Orianka Kilcher is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Q'Orianka Kilcher should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Q'Orianka Kilcher has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Q'Orianka tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Trine Neptune
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune