Carey Lowell
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Carey Lowell denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Carey Lowell needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Carey Lowell also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Lowell depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Carey's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Carey Lowell may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Carey Lowell takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Carey Lowell actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Her feelings depend on the conditions in her environment and therefore Carey Lowell could be subject to moods. She is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch her deeply. Carey Lowell could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of her.

Carey Lowell seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Carey likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. She is guided by her feelings and seems to live in a world of her own.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Carey Lowell enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Carey wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Lowell is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Carey Lowell thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

It is absolutely essential for Carey Lowell not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Carey tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Carey Lowell will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.

She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Carey Lowell to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Lowell may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Carey Lowell will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

She is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Carey Lowell is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, she may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Carey Lowell tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, she may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied herself. Carey could also be subject to improper liaisons.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 7th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC

Venus in Aries

Venus in 11th house

Venus Quincunx Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus Opposition Neptune/N. Node