challenges and difficulties
Phyllis George has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way George knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyze or pick things apart mentally. Phyllis George may be something of a hypochondriac also. Phyllis must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
She is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Phyllis George tries to be strictly accurate and she is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. George withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Phyllis' silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
Her faith, optimism, and sense of possibilities are tempered by much caution, and often doubt or skepticism as well. Whatever hopes or visions Phyllis George has for her life are firmly held in check by her sense of reality. At times she may wish for more freedom, but Phyllis also fears it and hang back. Phyllis George may blame practical limitations or some external condition or the prevailing Authority for her own inhibitions.
Basically shy, George tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing her love for someone. Phyllis George longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but she is also inclined to torment herself because of a seeming lack of affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Phyllis George instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Phyllis George needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Phyllis George - so much so that she seeks them out at her own expense. When she is under stress, George tends to look outside herself for approval or answers, and she leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge her own path through life is a key factor in her self-development.
Phyllis George is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about her intentions or desires, and she can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of George's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Phyllis George needs to cultivate her ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on her own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in any involvements she has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Phyllis George is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 3rd house
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 11th house