Phyllis George approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Phyllis' basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Phyllis George comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Phyllis George - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Phyllis George" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Phyllis a little better. This page describes the disguise George wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Phyllis George appears gentle and soft, and she acts rather reserved with others until she knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Phyllis has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: her heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for her. George tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to George.
George approaches life emotionally and subjectively and she is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around her. Instinctive and non-rational, Phyllis George is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for her actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.
Her emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Phyllis' thoughts and opinions. She views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach herself from her own personal bias and prejudices. She is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects her and those dear and close to her, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, she may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Phyllis and her near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for her and her near and dear ones, it is no good.
She is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those she cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Phyllis George empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, she is easily moved by others' pain, and Phyllis George is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.
Her moods fluctuate and change frequently and she is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Phyllis George communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.
Phyllis never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to her.
Phyllis George appears confident and self-assured and she makes a clear, strong impression on others. She is very concerned with the impact she makes on others and with getting personal recognition, sometimes too much so. Phyllis George tends to dominate in relationships and to be oblivious to others' points of view if they differ very much from George's own.
Phyllis George identifies with the progressive, innovative elements in society, and with being a rebel, reformer, nonconformist, or iconoclast. She enjoys being original, unpredictable, and spontaneous, and insists on doing whatever she wishes regardless of tradition, convention, or other people's wishes. Others see Phyllis George as "different" yet interesting and exciting.
Phyllis George appears responsible, conscientious, and solid - qualities which encourage others to take her seriously. She is unlikely to present herself as more than she is, and this humility is often endearing, or at least appealing, to others. Even as a youth, Phyllis George seemed mature for her age.
At times her desire to impress other people, to be important, or to be popular may make George does things that go against her better judgment. Even Phyllis' sincere attempts to be generous or helpful may be misinterpreted, seen as pompousness or interference. Phyllis George needs to be aware of her tendency to overdo - to go all out - even when it is not appropriate.
George is charming and very affectionate, and she expresses her feelings vivaciously. Love comes naturally to Phyllis George; she seems to be tuned into love from head to toe. Phyllis loves to go out and have a good time and little gestures of adoration are important to her.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Cancer Rising
Sun Conjunct Asc.
Uranus Conjunct Asc.
Saturn Sextile Asc.
Jupiter Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Mars
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