Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Paula Abdul denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Paula Abdul needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Paula Abdul also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Paula has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Paula Abdul may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Abdul's tie to her mother is very strong and Paula Abdul also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Paula Abdul cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Abdul's motto.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Paula Abdul cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Paula wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Paula Abdul is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.
Paula Abdul craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Abdul enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Paula Abdul very happy. Paula wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Paula Abdul may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Abdul is a natural host or diplomat.
She is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into her creations. But her emotional state is easily upset and Abdul can be a fanatic in love relationships. Paula Abdul tends to be possessive and she has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.
Paula Abdul has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but her somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Paula Abdul loves her work and may connect her profession with a hobby in some way.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 4th house
Moon Trine Mars
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mars/Asc.