challenges and difficulties
Lynde both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know him intimately does not come easily to Paul, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Paul Lynde is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Lynde.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Paul from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Paul Lynde feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Lynde remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Paul Lynde needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Paul accomplish this task.
Paul Lynde strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
His outlook on life is inclined to be somewhat negative and Paul Lynde tries to avoid relationships and social interaction as much as possible. There is a morose side to Paul's nature that makes him feel that no one cares about him, that life is difficult and perhaps not even worthwhile.
He is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of his objectives. Paul Lynde has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in his way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Somewhat stubborn and self-willed, Paul Lynde persists no matter what obstacles he has to overcome. He has great endurance and strength and he forces himself to work very hard. Paul Lynde may be somewhat one-sided in the pursuit of his objectives.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Paul Lynde instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Paul Lynde needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Paul Lynde is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Paul Lynde's growth. Paul Lynde needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is deep within himself, as Paul Lynde faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Paul Lynde keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
The following are specific activities that will support Paul Lynde in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Lynde, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Paul Lynde's path to wholeness involves confronting his dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming himself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Lynde's willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for Paul.
Lynde always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. Paul Lynde has a way of integrating the needs and feelings of others, while taking into consideration the proceedings of the association.
He is very obliging in his interaction with other people and can easily relate to them. Paul Lynde is likely to have many friends and acquaintances who share the same ideas and viewpoints as he does.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Opposition Sun/MC
Saturn Opposition Mars/Pluto
Saturn Opposition Uranus/Pluto
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Conjunct Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Asc.