Paul Bern
in Relationships

Paul Bern has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Bern expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Paul Bern dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Paul abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Paul Bern inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Paul is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Bern.

Paul Bern becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Bern feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Paul Bern a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Paul's past are especially dear to him.

Paul Bern may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Bern received was erratic and unreliable at best. Paul Bern has had to move a lot, or Bern's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Paul was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Paul Bern may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Paul Bern often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Bern, both emotionally and physically.

Paul has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Paul Bern, and he is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of his friends.

In love relationships, Paul Bern desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Paul "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Bern can be very demanding of his love partner. Paul Bern tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Paul Bern is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Paul Bern craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Paul loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Bern.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Opposition Uranus

Moon Conjunct N. Node/Asc.

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house