Norton Simon
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Norton Simon only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Simon.

Norton has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Norton Simon has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Norton Simon to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Norton Simon has a great deal of emotional depth.

Norton Simon has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Simon also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Norton, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Norton Simon has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Simon would react more intensely. Norton is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

In addition to Norton's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Norton Simon craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Simon rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Norton Simon does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Simon tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and his relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Norton Simon enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Simon's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Norton Simon is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Norton Simon tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Norton may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.

In love relationships, Norton Simon seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Norton, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Norton Simon supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Norton that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Norton Simon is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Simon is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Norton Simon prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Norton.

Norton is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Norton Simon very popular.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Norton Simon cannot or will not hold onto it. Norton Simon has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Simon's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Norton freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Simon could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Simon also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Norton Simon just wants to have a good time.

He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. Norton Simon will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 6th house

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Saturn/Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 7th house

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon