approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Nerine Kidd's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Nerine Kidd-Shatner comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Nerine Kidd-Shatner - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Nerine Kidd-Shatner" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Nerine Kidd a little better. This page describes the disguise Nerine Shatner wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Nerine Kidd-Shatner will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Nerine Kidd has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Nerine Kidd-Shatner very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Nerine Shatner is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Nerine Kidd-Shatner will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Nerine Shatner's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Nerine Kidd-Shatner appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Nerine Shatner is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Nerine Kidd possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Nerine Kidd-Shatner - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Nerine Kidd-Shatner does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Nerine Kidd.
Others see Nerine Kidd-Shatner as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Nerine Shatner shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Nerine Kidd-Shatner usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Nerine Kidd-Shatner comes across as contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Nerine Shatner may seem much more conservative than she actually is. Nerine Kidd is wary of committing social blunders and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, Nerine Kidd-Shatner's confidence is likely to grow because she will learn to depend more on her own self-assessment..
She may find it difficult to get ahead because Nerine Kidd lacks the vitality to do so. Nerine Kidd-Shatner tends to wait for better conditions and has the desire to accomplish a lot without straining herself too much. Quite often, though, her plans just seem to hang in the air.
She may feel that personal relationships are interfering with the pursuit of her goals and chooses to lead a life on her own. But at the same time Nerine Kidd-Shatner often may feel lonely and alienated by others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Square Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Mars/Neptune
Asc. Opposition Saturn/MC