Neile Adams challenges and difficulties
Neile has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave her feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with her peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Adams.
She is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Neile Adams tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Adams withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Neile's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
She is a bit skeptical, somewhat irritable, and others may find Neile Adams quarrelsome or nagging. Her nervousness seems to stem from her tendency to over-work herself, and Adams should try not to make more demands on others than they are able to handle.
Basically shy, Adams tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing her love for someone. Neile Adams longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but is also inclined to torment herself because of a seeming lack of affection.
She may frequently feel hindered or oppressed by other people and may suddenly join forces with others in order to overcome difficulties. Neile Adams seems to be afraid of her own courage and may find it hard to express her desires.
Adams is aware of her own shortcomings and is able to overcome many frustrations and limitations. She concentrates on her aims and goes about achieving them, even if she has to sacrifice something in the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Neile Adams instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Neile Adams needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Adams' deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Neile Adams has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Neile Adams should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Saturn Opposition Venus/Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Uranus/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Pluto/MC
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 5th house
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