approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Neile's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Neile Adams comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Neile Adams - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Neile Adams" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Neile a little better. This page describes the disguise Adams wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is very strong-willed and proud, but intensely private and not easy to know well. Behind Adams' quiet exterior lies a great deal of emotional depth, sensitivity, complexity, and also fierce determination. When Neile Adams wants something she goes after it rather quietly but insistently and wholeheartedly - and what Neile Adams wants, Neile Adams usually gets.
She is not a person who lives haphazardly or superficially. Neile wants to live passionately and intensely and is not averse to challenge, danger, or to facing the darker side of life - human pain and struggle. Neile Adams functions well in crisis situations and she often seeks them out, for she enjoys the feeling of living at full capacity.
She is very intuitive about other people and especially about their unspoken feelings and hidden motives. Neile Adams usually has strong, immediate gut reactions, either positive or negative, which prove to be correct. Adams approaches life very instinctively and is not always fully conscious of why she feels or acts the way she does. Neile Adams also has a very strong affinity with animals - an acute sensitivity and a nonverbal rapport with them.
In new relationships she is rather cautious, sometimes even suspicious, until she gets to know and trust someone - and trust does not come easily to Adams. When Neile Adams commits herself emotionally to someone, be it friend or lover, she is intensely loyal and devoted to them and she also expects the same kind of unwavering, undying loyalty in return. If she is ever betrayed by someone she cares deeply for, Neile Adams is capable of hating and retaliating with as much fervor as she once loved. Nothing is done halfway. In fact, she is intensely involved and often jealously attached to whatever she cares about, be it person, idea, or cause. There is definitely a streak of emotional fanaticism in her.
Because of her natural reserve, others may see Neile Adams as something of an enigma. She is quite self-protective and often defensive. Neile Adams also has a very magnetic quality, especially to members of the opposite sex.
She may come across as a bit scattered, nervous or restless, as if unable to sit still. Neile Adams seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Neile tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind soothing.
Neile often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than necessary to achieve her aims. And naturally, if people perceive that she is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will strongly resist Neile Adams and her objectives. Adams might be more successful if she tones herself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing her own needs and wants.
Neile Adams has a kind and loving nature and she radiates friendliness and warmth wherever she goes. Because of her obliging and cordial manner, Adams is likely to have many harmonious relationships with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Mercury Square Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Opposition Venus/N. Node