Myrna Loy
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Myrna Loy rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Loy's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Loy may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Myrna difficult to live with. Myrna Loy needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Myrna Loy has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Loy also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Myrna, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.

Myrna Loy has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Myrna out for help, sympathy or advice. Myrna Loy is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

Myrna Loy tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Myrna to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Myrna Loy may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

She is hard-working and tends to work till she collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Myrna Loy comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Loy must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.

She is easily influenced by her environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way she expected. Relationships are not easy for Myrna Loy; she could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.

In a love relationship, Myrna Loy is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Myrna likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Myrna Loy becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Myrna Loy's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Myrna Loy needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Loy finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Myrna Loy and she invests a lot of her energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Myrna shares her affection with the people in her family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for her. Being at home makes Loy happy.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Myrna Loy in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Loy is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Myrna Loy at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Loy is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Myrna Loy has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Myrna acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Myrna Loy is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Myrna is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Myrna Loy professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Loy a lot of breathing space.

Myrna has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. Her love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Loy experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Myrna Loy is always profoundly changed by her love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. She is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things she cares about.

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Myrna Loy seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Loy tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mars/Pluto

Moon Opposition Saturn/Asc.

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 4th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Conjunct Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/MC