Henry Steel Olcott
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Henry Steel Olcott only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Olcott.

Henry has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Henry Steel Olcott has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Henry Steel Olcott to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Henry Steel Olcott has a great deal of emotional depth.

Henry Steel Olcott has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Henry sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Henry Steel Olcott is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Henry wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Henry Steel Olcott feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Olcott can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Henry's emotional indulgence - Olcott tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Henry Steel Olcott cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Henry wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Henry Steel Olcott is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.

Henry Steel Olcott craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Olcott enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Henry Steel Olcott very happy. Henry wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Henry Steel Olcott may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Olcott is a natural host or diplomat.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Henry Steel Olcott puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Henry Steel Olcott and he is not happy without a love partner. Olcott can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

Henry Steel Olcott is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Henry is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Henry Steel Olcott professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Olcott a lot of breathing space.

Henry Steel Olcott loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Olcott may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 1st house

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Venus in Leo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Opposition Uranus

Venus Trine Pluto