Leslie Howard in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Leslie Howard only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Howard.
Leslie has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Leslie Howard has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Leslie Howard to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Leslie Howard has a great deal of emotional depth.
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Leslie Howard cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
Leslie Howard has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Leslie takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
There is a side to Leslie Howard that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Howard can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Howard. If Leslie's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Leslie Howard can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Leslie is particularly prone to.
Leslie has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Howard craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Howard and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Leslie Howard is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Leslie Howard needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Howard. Leslie Howard tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Leslie Howard, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Leslie does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Leslie Howard needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating if Leslie Howard is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Howard can be uncompromising at times. Leslie Howard also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
His thinking and acting are strongly influenced by his feelings. Leslie has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times he may need to slow down. Leslie Howard loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.
Leslie has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work Leslie Howard can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
Leslie Howard has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Leslie looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Leslie Howard must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.
Leslie's emotional life seems to be overly intense and his sexuality is very strong. Leslie Howard is likely to make many demands of his partner and he has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love him.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Leslie Howard enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Leslie wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Leslie Howard very happy. Leslie wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Leslie Howard may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Howard is a natural host or diplomat.
Leslie Howard has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well being. It is rare for Leslie to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Howard. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Leslie Howard to channel his passion.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Leslie Howard and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Leslie allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Leslie Howard, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Leslie Howard has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Howard tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Leslie Howard might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Leslie Howard is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Leslie Howard should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 5th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Moon Opposition Mercury/Mars
Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Sextile Pluto
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