Mika Tan
in Relationships

Mika does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Mika Tan would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Mika Tan avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Tan. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Mika Tan cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Mika Tan has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Mika takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Mika Tan expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

There is another side to Mika Tan as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Mika Tan; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Mika Tan is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

In love relationships, Mika Tan desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Mika "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Tan can be very demanding of her love partner. Mika Tan tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Mika Tan is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Mika is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Mika Tan feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Her interests may lead Mika Tan to unusual or specialized artistic fields and she has the ability to successfully advertise or promote her projects. Mika could do well in journalism and in writing sexual literature. This astrological configuration also is associated with a marriage swindler!

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Mika Tan seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Tan tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 5th house

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Uranus/MC