challenges and difficulties
Mickey has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Hargitay.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Mickey from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Mickey Hargitay feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Hargitay remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Mickey Hargitay needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Mickey accomplish this task.
Quite reserved and somewhat inhibited in his relationships with others, Mickey Hargitay may feel that he is better off by himself. Mickey feels that he does not fit in very well with people and he finds teamwork difficult.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Mickey Hargitay instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Mickey Hargitay needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Mickey Hargitay's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Hargitay's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Hargitay's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Hargitay's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Hargitay's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Mickey Hargitay needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Hargitay's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Hargitay's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Mickey Hargitay needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The following are specific activities that will support Mickey Hargitay in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Hargitay, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
He needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Mickey Hargitay has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. He needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Mickey Hargitay has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating his ability to love and to receive love.
Mickey Hargitay should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. He may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Hargitay's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. He is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Mickey really wants such jobs or not, usually because he has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in his path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Hargitay's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
Mickey Hargitay has a vivacious and lively manner with a tendency to shock others at times by blurting out blunt comments. Mickey loves to be with people, but tends to get overly excited when he is with them.
He may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Either Mickey Hargitay did not receive much affection while he was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Mickey may find it difficult to show his love in his relationships.
Some of his relationships tend to be a bit peculiar and Mickey should beware of becoming involved with bad company. Mickey Hargitay could be easily lured by others to take part in dubious or underhanded schemes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Conjunct Mars/N. Node
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Saturn
N. Node Opposition Neptune/MC