approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Mickey's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Mickey Hargitay comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Mickey Hargitay - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Mickey Hargitay" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Mickey a little better. This page describes the disguise Hargitay wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Mickey Hargitay will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Mickey has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Mickey Hargitay very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Hargitay is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Mickey Hargitay will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Hargitay's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Mickey Hargitay appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Hargitay is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Mickey possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Mickey Hargitay - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Mickey Hargitay does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Mickey.
Others see Mickey Hargitay as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Hargitay shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Mickey Hargitay usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Mickey Hargitay radiates a sense of confidence, well-being, and optimism, which inspires trust and good feelings in others. He likes himself and it shows. He expects success in life and he generally achieves it. However, Hargitay also tends to exaggerate or to overestimate himself, and he can be sloppy and careless when it comes to details.
Hargitay may seem unpredictable and unreliable in the way he behaves towards others - or his personal relationships may seem constantly in flux, so that Mickey Hargitay is always a bit off center.
Mickey Hargitay also comes across as an independent sort, someone who does not wish to be controlled or dictated to.
Despite the fact that his core self is quite distinct from the face the world generally sees, Mickey Hargitay has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant impact on people in his environment. He may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, Mickey Hargitay often does not get the full recognition he yearns for.
He may come across as a bit scattered, nervous or restless, as if unable to sit still. Mickey Hargitay seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Mickey tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind soothing.
There is an intense and somewhat secretive or guarded quality about Mickey Hargitay which may make people around him distinctly uncomfortable. They may feel that Mickey is constantly monitoring their inner motives, and he probably is. Hargitay sees through anything phony, any false pretense - and he may or may not be above using others' Achilles' heels (which he perceives so clearly) against them. At times, however, Mickey Hargitay may be too suspicious and assign negative intentions to innocent people. Mickey should avoid always looking on the dark side.
Mickey has an appealing physical appearance, which - along with his winning ways - is likely to make him a favorite in his immediate environment. Mickey Hargitay is the "easy" one, and he knows how to please others. However, Hargitay must not take his personal charm for granted, because he may also come across as vain or too needy for approval.
Mickey Hargitay has a hypnotizing effect on people in his surroundings and others see him as someone with extraordinary capabilities. Mickey has a strong desire to mentally dominate his relationships, and with his ability to out-talk anyone, he can sway them to his opinions.
His life is never a secret to anyone, for Hargitay likes to publicize his plans and let people know exactly where he stands. Others are drawn to Mickey Hargitay because of his conversational ability and people may often seek his advice.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Jupiter Conjunct Asc.
Uranus Opposition Asc.
Sun Square Asc.
Mercury Square Asc.
Pluto Square Asc.
Venus Trine Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Mercury/Pluto
Asc. Conjunct Mercury/MC