Michael Paré in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Michael Paré rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Paré's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Paré may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Michael difficult to live with. Michael Paré needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Michael Paré may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Paré has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Michael Paré wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Michael is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Michael Paré tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Michael Paré becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.
Although Michael Paré was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Michael's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Michael Paré tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Michael to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Michael Paré may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Michael Paré seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Michael has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Paré can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Michael Paré possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Michael Paré will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Michael does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Michael Paré wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Michael Paré appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Michael Paré very happy. Michael wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Michael Paré may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Paré is a natural host or diplomat.
Michael Paré is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Paré is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Libra
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Mars
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