Melina Perez approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Melina's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Melina Perez comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Melina Perez - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Melina Perez" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Melina a little better. This page describes the disguise Perez wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Melina Perez appears gentle and soft, and she acts rather reserved with others until she knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Melina has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: her heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for her. Perez tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Perez.
Perez approaches life emotionally and subjectively and she is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around her. Instinctive and non-rational, Melina Perez is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for her actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.
Her emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Melina's thoughts and opinions. She views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach herself from her own personal bias and prejudices. She is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects her and those dear and close to her, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, she may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Melina and her near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for her and her near and dear ones, it is no good.
She is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those she cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Melina Perez empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, she is easily moved by others' pain, and Melina Perez is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.
Her moods fluctuate and change frequently and she is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Melina Perez communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.
Melina never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to her.
She may come across as a bit scattered, nervous or restless, as if unable to sit still. Melina Perez seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Melina tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind soothing.
She is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Melina Perez is or what she wants - she is pretty much up front. Melina radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when she is at her best. She seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
The way Melina Perez comes across to others, particularly at first impression, tends to conceal certain important facets of her character. Specifically, what gives Melina pleasure, how she likes to give and receive affection, and what she seeks in friendship or love relationships are not at all apparent based on Perez's outward demeanor. Melina Perez seems to send mixed signals, and this can create a bit of confusion for the people who are interested in getting close to her or knowing her on more than a superficial level.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Cancer Rising
Mercury Square Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Venus Quincunx Asc.
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