Max Baer
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Max Baer denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Max Baer needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Max Baer also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Max Baer often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Baer thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Madcap Maxie is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Max Baer has good psychological insight into others.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Max Baer often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Madcap Maxie has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Baer craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Baer and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Max Baer is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Max Baer flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Max Baer feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Max Baer to learn. Max Baer should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
Max Baer possesses a certain inner greatness and because of his inner qualities, he has the ability to influence others. People look to Baer for guidance and advice, and his leadership is easily accepted by those with whom Max Baer comes in contact.
Baer relates to others on an emotional level, because he feels his emotions so strongly yourself. He is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when he is together with another person.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Max Baer values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Madcap Maxie desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Baer, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Max Baer appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Max Baer and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Madcap Maxie shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Baer happy.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Max Baer possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Madcap Maxie may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Max Baer may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Madcap Maxie's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Max Baer is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Baer is to being left out or unappreciated.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Max Baer to be able to deeply respect his partner. Madcap Maxie looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Max Baer is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto/MC
Moon Opposition N. Node/MC
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Sextile Saturn
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